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We Knew How to Love Back Then

Filed Under : Social by admin

Mar.1,2009

I think it’s about time that we take a more pensive look into one speculation about why the divorce rate is increasing OR why people stayed married longer decades ago, whichever you choose to view. I guess the whole motivation for this is that I’m tired of hearing others talk about how the newer generations don’t know how to love and how/why they were so much better at it.

I know it’s a few too sentences late to start a preface but I’ll do it anyway because I can: There is no more love decades and centuries ago than there is today. Any changes in the amount of ‘love’ is negligible with insignificant results. Since I have no data to back this up, I’ll drop it and proceed to just lay out my underlying thoughts Read More…

Tags : break ups, divorce rate higher, escaping unhappy relationships, faking love, how to avoid hurting loved ones, love or comfort, loveless marriages, moving on, pretending happiness, trying to save face, unhappy marriages, when to leave relationship, why relationships don't last longer

Star of the Show

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Dec.19,2008

What is it about females that make them want to talk to you more when you’re watching TV? It’s like they have nothing to say until you become engrossed with watching something on the ol’ tube. I thought I had the answer before and after a bit of research (meaning having multiple females do the same thing), I’m ready to share that answer.

TV is one of the females’ natural enemies! Read More…

Tags : attention, female natural enemy, he doesn't pay me attention, learning to shut up, talking while tv is on, why females hate tv

Allure

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Dec.13,2008

“Talking like this, you’ll never get someone…You’re just an asshole…Lighten up…Relax a little bit…” Oh how I laugh at these pathetic attempts at thinking. These are the forms of forewarning of those who wish to “save” me from myself in lieu of being “happy”.

WRONG!!! Read More…

Tags : allure of an asshole, arrogant, asshole, confident, the charm of asses, why do people like assholes

Insecure Girl Anthem

Filed Under : Family, Relationships by admin

Dec.4,2008

Here is an anthem that probably most women believe in. However, these women are the insecure, the weak, the simple-minded, and needy. Some of this anthem is actually good in practice but it seems that a lot of it is driven towards trying to fix a female, ALL THE DAMN TIME. Stop saying you are equal to a man if you expect him to excuse/rescue you from all of your problems or blame him for all of your mistakes. Read More…

Tags : blame the guy, excuses, insecure girls, what a woman expects of you, why women can't tell the truth, women poems

Just Get Over It

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Nov.6,2008

What does it mean to truly get over something? Does it mean that you never think of it again? No. What it does mean, though, is that you don’t pretend a resolve within yourself only to have a conflict flare up every time that you are faced with circumstances surrounding the idea that you supposedly got over.

I throw this out there because there seems to be a multitude of individuals that believe that they get over things quickly. If this is the case, all is well and fine. However, between old friends, colleagues, and various people, it seems that the people who wave the flag suggesting that they get over things so quickly are normally the individuals who seem to have the hardest time getting over things Read More…

Tags : accepting a failed relationships, closure, dealing with ex new partner, get over it, how to cope, how to get over something, letting it go, not holding onto things, resolving issues

Bitch Pride

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Aug.22,2008

I hear it and every time that I do I shake my head either visibly or within my conscious. They say it and think that it’s a badge of honor. Why? Most likely it’s because they’re stupid. Yes, they are plain stupid individuals that need someone to tell them how dumb they are. It seems that the only time they realize the absurdity of this claim is when the term is applied to an obviously disturbed individual.

So what they hell am I talking about? I’m talking about the misguided claim of a person saying, “Yes, I’m a bitch…so what?” Read More…

Tags : being a bitch, bitch, bitch karma, bitch with no friends, conceited, everyone hating you, happy to be a bitch, having no friends, in love with yourself, mother daughter bitches, proude to be a bitch, stuck on yourself

Perceived Intellect

Filed Under : Social by cogitative_sovereign

Jan.21,2008

Some people are so amazing to me, because they are caught in a twisted perception of reality. Some of us dream of foreign lands or have lavish fantasies that help us cope through the harsh realities of life. These aren’t the people that I have a problem with because most of them try to escape because they REALIZE what’s REAL. I have a problem with people that are caught into the distorted, false reality of their own mind. What makes it even worse is that these people have fooled themselves into thinking that their mangled view of reality is actually so…when it CLEARLY is false! Read More…

Tags : arrogant assholes, know it alls, people confused about their level of knowledge, people thinking they are so smart, perceived intellect, why does someone think they are always correct

“Logic” and Communication

Filed Under : Social by cogitative_sovereign

Jan.20,2008

I recently had several discussions with friends about communication, and what effective communication really is. More specifically, communication and relationships. Everyone has different ways of communicating, and sometimes those different ways can cause misinterpretation and miscommunication. But what or who causes it? I think that the way people think and how they live their lives greatly affects the success or failure of communication in a relationship, and the relationship itself. Read More…

Tags : being smart enough to talk at different levels, how to communicate with others, so technical but don't understand the simple, technical people who can't adapt, the difference between logic and communication, using logic to communicate different ways

The Spoiled Child

Filed Under : Family by admin

Jan.8,2008

Always want to be grown…yet, spend someone else’s money; Want to be taken seriously…only if your idea happens to be correct. This is a failing and perpetual problem with the “spoiled ones” of the world. They want everything and yet nothing (as in responsibility). They only want what’s beneficial to them but none of the associating factors that come along with it.

Their whiny statements always come in the same form: “I just want to be on my own and do my own thing.” Yet when it comes down to it, they only want to be able to do what they want with other’s assets and money without answering to anyone. They never seem to realize that that’s the tie that binds them to their supportive stone. You CANNOT be independent from the source that fuels your very existence Read More…

Tags : dependent youngsters, immature whiny kids, money hungry people, needy individuals, rotten children, spoiled child

The Black KKK

Filed Under : Family by blacksuntzu

Dec.8,2007

Tell me people at what point do we say no The Black KKK. They are picking up where the original KKK left off; killing the black communities and its people. You may ask who are the Black KKK; just look around you the next time black folks are acting a fool and killing each other. Folks drinking too much, making fun of those that do well in school and want to succeed. Folks that tell you not to snitch but would kill you over your shoes. When as a people do we stop worrying about everyone else and what they say and focus on what is really important? We need to lift ourselves out of the gutter and get our house in order first; stop the gangster culture destroying our kids’ minds. Hold these so-called black leaders accountable when they just chase stories instead of chasing the fiends out of our neighborhoods. We are all empowered to make the right decisions and make a change in attitude and our peers as well as the youth. If we continue this trend we will no longer be looking at the white man or the institution as holding us back but yourselves in the mirror. Black people stand up and stop acting like ni**ers and start acting like the proud strong people we came from.

Remember, not part of the solution; part of the problem.

Comments welcomed and expected

Tags : african-americans downgrading themselves, black kkk, blacks hurting themselves, ignorance of blacks, the race card, time for blacks to stop complaining, what blacks need to do for growth, whiny blacks

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