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Dec.4,2008Here is an anthem that probably most women believe in. However, these women are the insecure, the weak, the simple-minded, and needy. Some of this anthem is actually good in practice but it seems that a lot of it is driven towards trying to fix a female, ALL THE DAMN TIME. Stop saying you are equal to a man if you expect him to excuse/rescue you from all of your problems or blame him for all of your mistakes. Read More…
Category : Relationships
Most people seem to think that the way to getting their way in a relationship is by using threats. In a lot of cases, this is very true. Ever so often, however, you run across an individual who is willing to not only “test” you on your threat, but to also be able to not care.
In order for a threat to work, the threat-provider must be willing to carry out the threat with no reservations about the consequences of carrying out that threat. If this turns out not to be the case, you are in a whole lot of danger should someone choose to “call your bluff” Read More…
What do you think your relationship is for? Is it to enhance your happiness or to make you happy? Do you sit around all day thinking of your partner, what your partner is doing, and/or how you can’t live without your partner OR do you just take comfort in knowing somewhere is there when you need them?
If you need a relationship to make you happy, you invest a majority of your thinking into your relationship, or you can’t live life without your partner, you are the biggest target for unhappiness Read More…
Are you female in a “committed” relationship whereby you have that loyal male friend whom you can talk to? Or, perhaps, just another male friend that you feel that you can release your problems onto about your current relationship because he’s so understanding?
How about this…Give that mindset of thinking up. I know that you would like to believe that males are so stupid to the point of not being able to catch a clue, but here’s a clue for you: Read More…
How selfish can a person be to just want someone to love/want them with no reciprocating feelings just for the hell of having, yet, another admirer be enamored with them? I don’t know, but just ask any immature female base at your disposal and I’m sure they will facebook/myspace you an answer only intelligible to idiots.
The want/need is actually sound: have as many individuals in love with me or infatuated with me as possible. The downside is the other side of the coin where you as an individual holds no regard for your “subjects”. The MASSIVE problem is when you can’t discern that this is the mentality that you’re going through and actually BELIEVE that you hold someone’s interest other than your own at heart Read More…
Everyone knows that a breakup can be hard to endure but if you ever find yourself in a particularly strenuous breakup where a partner can’t take it, what should you do?
The first thing to recognize is that if someone isn’t ready to depart from the relationship, things might go askew in a number of directions. The most common obstacle may be a partner preying on your weaknesses. The number one sought line of defense in dealing with a break-up is drawing pity towards one’s self Read More…
Tags : crazy partners, crying at the end of relationship, ending a relationship, how to deal with a break up, how to get a partner back with you, not letting go, partners who won't let go, refusing to break up, using sympathy to get your way, using the guilt trip, what to watch for in ending relationships, when the relationship is over, why its hard to break up
I guess it wasn’t hard to tell that I would eventually write on this topic, considering all of the other things that I wrote about. So, what the hell draws a woman to a psychotically damaged individual??? Is it love, fate, pity, etc…
Perhaps, it’s just a never-ending desire to feel the need to “fix” something or someone. Yes, I think that’s much more accurate from what I’ve seen happen in relationships Read More…
Sigh…why does it seem like girls and guys can NEVER be on the same time frame? It seems like whenever I’m in a relationship, or something leading towards a relationship, I’m not on the same page with the guy. I’ll be ready to jump in something special…because I feel and I know that it’s right, but the guy will just hesitate and hold back. Then by the time they FINALLY decide to come around, I’ve already been hurt, or I’m already over it…OR, I’m just not willing to put myself out there like I was initially.
I know that guys work differently than girls, but it would be really nice if they acted on “how they feel” instead of being so weary and stand-offish. I’m just a little frustrated…when I’M ready they aren’t, and when THEY are ready I’m not. Should I just take this untimely occurrence of events as a sign? Or should I continue to pursue what I feel?
Why is it so hard for people to be honest with one another? Why or how can a person look right into their significant other’s faces and lie to them? I was speaking to someone the other day about the way people relate to one another, not just in the aspect of boyfriend/girlfriend or husband/wife but friendships and everything in between.
If someone asks you a question or for advice, it is my sincere belief that they want an honest answer. Even if you feel they want the answer sugarcoated so their feelings are not hurt, doesn’t that make you a liar? Read More…
It’s funny how you never think that you’ll “live” again after your love. It’s inexplicable, unimaginable, and exciting to the very core when it happens, though. All along, you had been a victim of the Love or Comfort syndrome and not even realized it.
You thought that there was no way in the world that someone would/could fill that void in your heart but, thankfully, you were wrong. For just a moment you considered possibilities and remembered to live life and, in that instance, someone more appealing in every way seemingly drops right in front of you and you’re thrown into a state of awe Read More…