2007 December | The Ugly Truths

Platonic Bull

Filed Under : Relationships by admin

Dec.25,2007

This, here, is meant to be a very short post with a very clear message –> There is no such thing as platonic friendships where at least one individual is attracted to another. If the workings of a relationship don’t happen, it’s not because they were focused on maintaining the platonic nature but because one of the persons wasn’t attracted to the other.

There will only ever be 3 cases that might POSSIBLY keep a platonic friendship platonic. To be frank, the only way a friendship can be platonic between non-related people is as follows: Read More…

Tags : can a guy and girl be friends, can a relationship between male and female be platonic, conditions that can make a relationship platonic, cuddle bitch, faking friendship, how to have platonic frineds, nice guy, platonic relationship myths, pretending to be platonic

Cuddle Puppy

Filed Under : Relationships by admin

Dec.24,2007

Hey there cuddle buddy…You’re quite a sad fellow in how you approach relationships. I thought I gave you a heads up in the Nice Guy post but you didn’t listen.

Why must you subject yourself to this treatment between yourself and females? I mean, it’s quite simple the pattern of things that’s been happening. You spend time being the nice good guy, buying up any and everything, listening to everything the female says, and hoping (yes, just hoping) that you’ll get to be either the boyfriend or have boyfriend benefits. Meanwhile, there’s this seemingly a**hole of a guy (or just a normal non-excessive guy) around the corner who this female gives all of her time and attention to, even if you think otherwise.

You always believe you’re getting closer and closer to your goal but the truth of the matter is that you’re only there as TEMPORARY REPLACEMENT OF THE A**HOLE GUY Read More…

Tags : avoiding becoming a friend, being too soft in relationships, being used by a female, cuddle bitch, cuddle puppy, giving in to a female, he's just a friend, how to approach girl, making a move on the girl, nice guy

God of Convenience

Filed Under : Religion by admin

Dec.13,2007

Whatever you may believe in, why do people decide that it’s perfectly o.k. to interject their “God” in and out of situations of their life? What I mean, essentially, is why is it that an individual can easily decide at which point in their life to make use of their God but then at a point when everything seems to fail, they decide it’s a “test”.

I see that I’m not making myself clear…Here’s the scenario that I hear day in and day out…”This good thing happened to me blah, blah, blah, and it’s thanks to [insert your God/religion of choice here]” but then something conversely bad happens and then all of a sudden it’s, “We make our own decisions/choices that are responsible for the outcomes” OR “My [insert your God/religion of choice her] is testing me on my faith”. Do you mean to really say that for all the good things that happen, your pick of religion is completely responsible but then for something bad your religion/God is uninvolved because of free will and/or is testing you? Read More…

Tags : a god of convenience, belief, free will, having faith when it's convenient, nonsense, rationalizing religion, Religion, religious nonsense, using God or religion to explain events, using religion to explain things

The Black KKK

Filed Under : Family by blacksuntzu

Dec.8,2007

Tell me people at what point do we say no The Black KKK. They are picking up where the original KKK left off; killing the black communities and its people. You may ask who are the Black KKK; just look around you the next time black folks are acting a fool and killing each other. Folks drinking too much, making fun of those that do well in school and want to succeed. Folks that tell you not to snitch but would kill you over your shoes. When as a people do we stop worrying about everyone else and what they say and focus on what is really important? We need to lift ourselves out of the gutter and get our house in order first; stop the gangster culture destroying our kids’ minds. Hold these so-called black leaders accountable when they just chase stories instead of chasing the fiends out of our neighborhoods. We are all empowered to make the right decisions and make a change in attitude and our peers as well as the youth. If we continue this trend we will no longer be looking at the white man or the institution as holding us back but yourselves in the mirror. Black people stand up and stop acting like ni**ers and start acting like the proud strong people we came from.

Remember, not part of the solution; part of the problem.

Comments welcomed and expected

Tags : african-americans downgrading themselves, black kkk, blacks hurting themselves, ignorance of blacks, the race card, time for blacks to stop complaining, what blacks need to do for growth, whiny blacks

Failed Family Control

Filed Under : Family by admin

Dec.7,2007

You kick and scream, and I love it. You hate that you can’t control everything…I love it even more. Time for you to really understand what it means to not be able to throw money/influence at a situation. You lose…you will always lose. I’m all that it takes to send you into misery, have you think about me all day, and yet you don’t realize it yet. Have your infatuations with others, and yet I’ll be in the minds of others even closer to you. After all that nonsense I’ve reviewed, I’ve come up with these facts about love, relationships, etc. Read More…

Tags : controlling the child's partners, disliking the new boyfriend, family trying to control kids, hating the new girlfriend, nosy family members, overbearing mothers, overprotective mothers, parents matchmaking, parents trying to play matchmaker

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